Leaning in...
If it HITT different, you know Iām talking about it!
Join me as I keep it real, raw, and fun all at the same time
Most people who really know me understand that Iām not someone who seeks the spotlight. Iāve always preferred to observe quietly, celebrating others and their accomplishments from the background. It felt safe, comfortableāand I was okay with that. I never pictured myself as a leader or someone who could confidently speak in front of a crowd.
āYou will stand and speak in front of hundreds...ā
Years ago, though, someone told meāout of the blue and without any contextāthat I would one day stand and speak in front of hundreds of people. I remember nodding politely and smiling, not knowing what to make of it. At the time, I was working as a Registered Nurse; with no plans of working in psychiatry.
To this day, I havenāt made any grand speeches or stood before a large audience, but my journey over the past five years feels like itās preparing me for something I couldnāt have imagined back then.
ā...intimating, uncomfortable, and foreign...ā
While working as a Nurse Practitioner under the mentorship of Dr. Holly DuBois, she saw something in me that I didnāt yet see in myself: leadership potential. She pushed me out of my comfort zone, encouraging me to step into spaces I never thought I belongedārooms filled with executives, managers, and other C-suite leaders. To say I felt out of place would be an understatement. It was intimidating, uncomfortable, and foreign. But growth often comes disguised as discomfort, and this was no exception.
That time, though short-lived, shaped me. The company eventually closed, but the experience strengthened my clinical expertise, leadership abilities, and understanding of business operations. It also planted the seed for something bigger: my own practice.
In the wake of that transition, I launched Bridged Connections Psychiatry. Over the past 22 months, Iāve been working to challenge the comfortable with doses of the unfamiliar. Whether itās a meet-and-greet in a coffee shop, attending networking events, or showing up as a vendor at events like the Black Moms Fair, Iāve been learning to embrace visibility.
One of my proudest moments so far was being featured on Caddo Convos, where I shared my journey, insights, and offerings. And Iām thrilled about whatās coming this springāstay tuned for some exciting features and community outreach! If thereās one thing Iāve learned, itās that growth begins where comfort ends. But itās not a journey we take aloneāconnections make all the difference. Whether itās the mentors who see our potential, the colleagues who challenge us, or the communities we serve, these relationships shape our path forward.
āturning the unfamiliar into something achieveable..ā
With the support and encouragement of my incredible circle, stepping outside my comfort zone feels less daunting than it once did. Connections have a way of turning the unfamiliar into something achievable, and Iām deeply grateful for those who continue to inspire and uplift me along the way.
So, lean into the uncomfortable and embrace the connections that spark transformation. Together, we can grow into more than we ever imagined.
Until next time,

